"The Himalayas are to the north". This statement is a perfectly correct statement to anyone living to the south of the World's highest mountain range. But, it is equally baffling for a Russian or a Chinese. Vice-versa if it reads "The Himalayas are to the south". Is either of the parties wrong? No, the answer is that Perspective is the winner.
The clichéd story about how a man without slippers stops whining when he meets a man with amputated legs is pretty common. I agree that it's extremely idealistic of me to preach the "Step into someone else's shoes" philosophy and I don't advocate it. All I wish to point out is that any situation we face is simply defeat able by perspective. I personally learned this myslf, passing through some very idiosyncratic phases which were in consideration, serious but not as much as I considered them to be. What I learnt is that everything and anything requires time which under a veil is simply nothing but perspective. A passé Bollywood song had the lyric
"Karlo jo bhi karna hai
Hota hai jo hona hai
Guzara jo pal yeh fhir na aayega....
Kya bura hai kya bhala hai?
Waqt hi shayad khuda hai
Ho jane do phir,dekha jayega...."
This in a sense brings out the view point based on the extensive varsity and length of time. I remember my friend telling me (when I had done really badly in an exam), with an extremely annoyed look, "Dude, in your life you live for 6 Lakh hours; and you are sad because you messed up for three of them? Really?". The bullet remains that sometimes, it's just a new angle or a change in POV is all we need to resume our erstwhile depleting life.
Another example too stems from the phases I mentioned earlier. In a typical Indian drama, I was counselled by numerous family members, career counsellors and believe it or not, a psychiatrist. Here in, one of my uncles made a brilliant point which is relevant here ( Fair bit of warning though, he was from an engineering background so kindly ignore the geekiness behind it). He said that life is like a Sine graph. You go up and then you go down and then up again. However, it is important to realise that when you are at the downward/negative amplitude( i.e. at the worst possible moment), you just have to keep hope that everything is going to be great because from that moment onwards, your life graph is just going to rise.
So, sometimes, life is all about perspective (or the Hindi colloquial “Nazaariya”). To sum up this rather optimistically driven post, I quote myself (rather uncanny of me to actually even come up with one), “Life in itself is a unique gift; but getting to play with your gift in the human form is the ultimate souvenir. Cherish your passions, enjoy your time and of course believe in everything and everything will believe in you.”